Effects on Children Who Witness Domestic Violence
The experience of witnessing domestic violence can have serious
and long lasting effects on children, regardless of whether the
children have been directly abused by a parent. The following
is a summary of some of the effects that can result when a child
witnesses violence between her/his parents.
Children will sometimes attempt to intervene, putting them at
risk for physical harm. In one study, 63% of boys, ages 11-20,
who committed homicide, murdered the man who was abusing their
mother (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence). Children
often feel guilty that they were not able to prevent the violence
and sometimes feel they were somehow to blame for the violence.
Depression,
impaired trust, and low self-esteem are common in children who
witness domestic violence.
Witnessing violence in the home often
leads to behavior problems in children; typically children will
develop aggressive or submissive
behaviors. Children may identify with the role of the victim
or the abuser.
Effects may include emotional problems in children
such as anxiety disorders, phobias, learning problems, delayed
social development
and developmental delays.
Because of the emotional and behavioral
effects of domestic violence, children may also develop academic
or behavioral problems at school,
drug or alcohol abuse, or delinquent behavior.
Research points
to a strong tendency for the cycle of violence to continue to
the next generation. Children from violent homes
are at higher risk of getting involved in violent relationships
as teens or adults. One researcher found, for example, that men
who had witnessed domestic violence were three times as likely
to abuse their own spouses. Sons of the most violent families
have a rate of spouse abuse one thousand times greater than sons
from
nonviolent homes (Straus, 1980).
The Children's Program at Artemis
provides counseling, support groups, and advocacy for children
and teens from violent homes.
For more information, call Artemis Center for Alternatives to
Domestic Violence
(937) 222-SAFE (7233)
Artemis is a United Way Agency
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